So this question was asked of me just last night. In all actuality I should have responded with a sarcastic response, especially because of who was doing the asking, and because of how the topic even came up…

So what does that mean to you??? When you are single what is the first thing you think about being single? I am sure there are those that embrace it by saying “I can do whatever or whoever I want… ” and that is why this question was directed at me… because of a sexual response, like I was going to say well I am single so I can f*&k whoever I want! Yeah, if I was a d@*k hungry wh*@e, (yes I am trying to be nice people) I would probably think that way, but being single to me is more empowering than being able to sleep with anyone that I want.

What is even sadder is, there are actually chicks that think of life like that… stuck in that “girls gone wild” state of mind. Yeah it may be a carefree way of living, but I like myself way too much for that, and I think all those little bitches should maybe start to like themselves a little more too… oh well, if you don’t like it don’t read it!!

Anyways… so do you even care enough to know where this is going??? So my response to this question is simple being single means I have myself, I worry about me, I love me (and the kids of course). I do things for myself and I am with myself, it is empowering and I do enjoy me time, so you call me selfish then? My question is when you are in a relationship that doesn’t work out for whatever reason, and you are single after years of being in a relationship do you run to the next person or do you enjoy the time you have to yourself, and allow your self to be selfish and enjoy the way that feels.

I know this is a odd topic and question, yet I am still astounded that there are those that have to be up someone’s ass all the time, and there are those that use sex to move from one “thing or fling” to the next, yet I think the people that do that do it cause they are co-dependant, or because they don’t love themselves, shit maybe even because they don’t even like themselves enough to be alone with themselves, but what I think about that is, if you don’t like yourself enough to be alone with yourself, how is the hell do you think someone else will like you long enough to stay with you for a given period of time????

Just Sayin…..