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2009
10.09

It is hard to have a love of shoes… and have friends and co-workers that do the shoe no-no’s. So welcome to today’s what not to wear… and thank my homegirl D-Boogie for keeping us on our toes….

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Do you see these…. the lovely puke green color with the emphasis of the brown do-do beads, YES! Ok ladies D-Boogie is the bomb, she is one of the greatest people you will ever meet. So D-Boogie this is your time to shine, you got everything else going for you cause your an awesome person, so who cares if your shoes suck, you can’t have it all!!!

I love you girl!

Mere

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Hmmm

2009
10.08

Ok.. so I saw these shoes in the store the other day, and they were awesome.. except the platform was a little strange, and I just came across some boots that are nice, they have the same platform… so I want your input on it… Love it? Hate it? or Not Sure?

Otherwise Love these boots!!!

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Not before my coffee….

2009
10.08

Wow, day to day you wonder what you can blog about next… then life happens and you have to search no where for that answer! It’s only 9:30 am and yet I already have had an eventful day. With all thanks to the crazy and stupid people of the world. Yes, stranage stupid man in the red piece of shit car, thank you! Thank you for pissing me off this morning… and allowing me to speak of what a freakin retard you truly are!!

So we are irratated by stupid people, but today they get their thanks, because they give us something to talk about…. This morning, I was turning into the parking lot at work (keep in mind I do NOT work in a safe area of town). I stopped with my turn signal on, and as I was about to turn I saw the moron behind me passing me and I stopped from turning, and of course blew my horn. Once he passed by me, I turned in and parked. He pulled off the road and wanted to start something, keep in mind he didn’t get of his car.

Daniel and my youngest was in the car cause they were dropping me off (Daniel is my ex) because the little one is sick and my car is going to get an oil change. Well when he got out the car to get in the driver’s seat they had some words, so the guy acted as if he was going to get out of the car, yet he didn’t. So then of course me and my loud mouth started going, the whole time this guy acted like he was going to get out or shoot us, IDK which one… but it takes more than he is capable to intimidate me….

He is very lucky that we weren’t somewhere else and I was standing where I work… cause I might have grabbed his dreads and yanked his ass out the window… for one simple principle…. I hadn’t had my morning coffee!

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Season Change

2009
10.07

I do love the season change cause it brings me new shoes to choose from…. and I love these super sexy!!

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Black is always classic….

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But these are my favs!!!

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What does being single mean to you?

2009
10.07

So this question was asked of me just last night. In all actuality I should have responded with a sarcastic response, especially because of who was doing the asking, and because of how the topic even came up…

So what does that mean to you??? When you are single what is the first thing you think about being single? I am sure there are those that embrace it by saying “I can do whatever or whoever I want… ” and that is why this question was directed at me… because of a sexual response, like I was going to say well I am single so I can f*&k whoever I want! Yeah, if I was a d@*k hungry wh*@e, (yes I am trying to be nice people) I would probably think that way, but being single to me is more empowering than being able to sleep with anyone that I want.

What is even sadder is, there are actually chicks that think of life like that… stuck in that “girls gone wild” state of mind. Yeah it may be a carefree way of living, but I like myself way too much for that, and I think all those little bitches should maybe start to like themselves a little more too… oh well, if you don’t like it don’t read it!!

Anyways… so do you even care enough to know where this is going??? So my response to this question is simple being single means I have myself, I worry about me, I love me (and the kids of course). I do things for myself and I am with myself, it is empowering and I do enjoy me time, so you call me selfish then? My question is when you are in a relationship that doesn’t work out for whatever reason, and you are single after years of being in a relationship do you run to the next person or do you enjoy the time you have to yourself, and allow your self to be selfish and enjoy the way that feels.

I know this is a odd topic and question, yet I am still astounded that there are those that have to be up someone’s ass all the time, and there are those that use sex to move from one “thing or fling” to the next, yet I think the people that do that do it cause they are co-dependant, or because they don’t love themselves, shit maybe even because they don’t even like themselves enough to be alone with themselves, but what I think about that is, if you don’t like yourself enough to be alone with yourself, how is the hell do you think someone else will like you long enough to stay with you for a given period of time????

Just Sayin…..

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Speak Out!

2009
10.06

I know this is Breast Cancer Awareness month, and I am doing my thing to make a difference with a Breast Cancer walk later this month, yet… I want to touch on something that is a part of my life everyday. I work for Child Enrichment, which is a non profit that helps abused children. I think that Child Abuse is not thought of everyday so please take a moment to read this and think about these children, and direct someone you know to read this… help spread the word, Awareness is a key to prevention!!

“Daddy……it hurts”

This is A TRUE STORY AND IF YOU DON’T PASS THIS ON YOU DON’T
HAVE A SOUL!!!

My name is Chris ,
I am three,
My eyes are swollen..
I cannot see.

I must be stupid,
I must be bad,
What else could have made,
My daddy so mad?

I wish I were better,
I wish I weren’t ugly,
Then maybe my mommy,
Would still want to hug me.

I can’t do a wrong,
I can’t speak at all,
Or else I’m locked up,
All day long.

When I’m awake,
I’m all alone,
The house is dark,
My folks aren’t home.

When my mommy does come home,
I’ll try and be nice,
So maybe I’ll just get,
One whipping tonight.

I just heard a car,
My daddy is back,
From Charlie’s bar

I hear him curse,
My name is called ,
I press myself,
Against the wall.

I try to hide,
From his evil eyes,
I’m so afraid now,
I’m starting to cry.

He finds me weeping,
Calls me ugly words,
He says its my fault,
He suffers at work.

He slaps and hits me,
And yells at me more,
I finally get free,
And run to the door.

He’s already locked it,
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me,
Against the hard wall.

I fall to the floor,
With my bones nearly broken,
And my daddy continues,
With more bad words spoken.

‘I’m sorry!’, I scream,
But it’s now much to late,
His face has been twisted,
Into a unimaginable sh ape.

The hurt and the pain,
Again and again,
O please God, have mercy!
O please let it end!

And he finally stops,
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless,
Sprawled on the floor.

My name is Chris ,
I am three,
Tonight my daddy,
Murdered me.

And you can help,
Sickens me to the soul,
If you read this,
And don’t pass it on.

I pray for your forgiveness,
You would have to be,
One heartless person,
Not to be affected,
By this Poem.

And because you ARE affected,
Do something about it!
So all I ask you to do,
Is pass this on!

IF YOU ARE AGAINST CHILD ABUSE!
Post this as ‘Daddy … It hurts’

If you do not send this to everyone you know
Then you obviously don’t care about child abuse.

At first I thought this was just a chain letter
And I wasn’t going to send it either,
But now I realize that this is an important situation.

At least 5 children each day from around the world die from child abuse!!!!

This happens across the board, no matter how much money they have or their ethnicity.
Please help.

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WEAR A BLUE RIBBON EVERYDAY!

WEAR A BLUE RIBBON EVERYDAY!

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Who has missed the shoes!!

2009
10.06

Let me start off by saying… that since I have disappeared on a temporary vacation (and it wasnt anything like a vacation) I went a little shoe crazy. In the last month I bought 7 pairs of heels… yup 7! So ladies…. we may need an intervention here… just sayin!

Ok since it has started to cool down over here… time for boots…. and these I have to have…

HOTT!

Gojane.com $31.70, and they will be mine!

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So much on my mind

2009
10.06

I have been going through a huge block when I think about blogging. Yet today I have so much on my mind that I am unsure what I should talk about. So I think today I will keep it simple… an update!

I will be moving into my own place by the end of the month, which I am super excited about! I have been living with an awesome friend and her son since August. She has made us very much at home!! Yet most know it’s nothing like having your own place. So … Yay!!!! I have taken this term out of school to make this move as least stressful as possible, as if moving can ever not be stressful, ha!

My concerns in moving is the apartment is great, but very small. I am going from a packed 3 bedroom house to a 2 bedroom apartment, which is a very small two bedroom apartment. So this weekend the plans are to go to my packed 10×15 storage unit and start deciding what I am keeping and what is being sold, yup YARD SALE!

That brings me to having a yard sale at the end of the month, which I have always done awesome at yard sales, so that is a good thing! I cannot do it this weekend, because our Black Tie Charity event for work is this Friday and then Saturday and Sunday I have to make decisions about the stuff, and the weekend of the 17th, I am doing a 3 mile Breast Cancer walk!!! (YAY for that too!) So the next Saturday will be the 24th, which is the weekend before I move and also a day before my youngest, GiGi’s 3rd Birthday, whew this is going to be a busy month. Yet, busy and fun!!

So maybe you will just be lucky enough for me to be back during a hectic time which of course will lead to some great laughs I am sure, cause never is my life dull or boring… So buckle up this is going to be an exciting month….

ps. I missed you guys!!

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:-)

2009
09.23

I know that it has been awhile, and I am almost back for good. I have been doing a lot of reflecting on things in general, well when I am not busy with the kids, school or work! I am also in a final week of my semester. Finals are due on Tuesday, so …. I am stressed, well actually stressed doesn’t even really touch on the emotions I have been experiencing.

As everyone knows I have been going through a ton of changes in life, which some are good and the others are a little less desirable. I have so much to say… but when it’s time to type, write or speak it’s like dead air. Yet I figured if I posted “it will come” LMAO… so I am taking the first step to displaying my randomness all over again. Worse off, I have been on twitter in weeks…. the good news is once these finals are out of the way I will be back like never before!!

So, I have missed everyone, and as long as I don’t have a heart attack before Tuesday, please clap for me cause I am back…. YAY!!

“Irony … is hating what love has done to me….”

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Cynical

2009
08.27

Maybe I am a little cynical today… this is something I could not deny… but my feelings are hurt. I am more the type of girl, that if I cry then I get mad because I am crying. All it takes is one tear… I don’t cry for much, yet I caught myself shedding a tear today during a conversation through messenger… then I was furious with myself, like really? I was pissed because why the fuck did I cry? Why do I even care? As much as we as humans like to have friendships, companionships and any type of relationship with others, at the same time we put ourselves at different risks just to care about a person. And no matter whether you care about them as a person or for more and deeper reasons, you still put yourself out there…

That is not really a bad thing, yet maybe there should be rules. Like a freakin contract before you enter a friendship or a relationship. I don’t know… I am just as lost as the next person. I know how to be a better person for myself and for my kids, but when it comes to other people I am so lost! I think that in any personal relationship that I have, I don’t ask for much. I am not a taker.. I am more of a giver, I always try and help people, and show my appreciation for their friendship, yet when it comes down to it I feel like they just take for granted the fact that I am in any part of their life….

Do you know why this irratates me, because you don’t just meet random people, everyone that comes into your life was destined to be there, if even for only a minute. But what I don’t understand if they are destined to only be there for a short time, why do they leave you with some sort of pain or emptiness. Why can’t you be left with the laughter, the smiles…. instead you are sitting there with tears in your eyes, fighting them trying to keep them from escaping. And now you may remember the good times… but when you think about that person you feel that pull in your chest.

Why do we allow this? Why can’t we just say oh well and move on, I guess that would mean that we never cared. I don’t know I am conflicted about so many feelings… and yet I am at the point where I might just want to become an ice princess for a little while.

So maybe I will feel better if I tell you what I think is overrated …. (at least right now, to me!)
1. His and Hers Towels
2. PDA… fuck that mushy shit!
3. Valentine’s Day
4. Romance in the beginning of a relationship
5. Telling someone you miss them, when you don’t even know what it feels like to miss someone
6. arguing
7. crying
8. feeling sorry for yourself
9. The amount of different Wedding Magazines at a single checkout line
and what is not overrated….

1. The TRUTH
2. Just being real about your feelings with people
3. Really caring about people and their feelings

Yes, maybe I am jusy cynical today… and tomorrow will be better… this I know, yet today I will sit quietly and think how someone has made me feel and how I don’t resent it, but I am let down…

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